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The Awakening

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I actually began writing this piece shortly after coming out of a long drawn out and painful break-up. I was a total mess. My life was in shambles and as I tried to make some sense of what had happened, and why, I began to write The Awakening. This piece is a compilation of all the lessons I learned and the observations I made about myself, about other people and their relationships, and of the wisdom that my most dear friend, Donnalyn Oakes, has shared with me over countless conversations.   There comes a time in your life when you finally get it ... When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out "ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying and struggling to hold on." And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes you begin to look at the world from a new perspective. ......

Between Here and There

Recently I have been told that someone who at one time  I considered to be my best friend referred to me as being the N-word.  While this not only hurt me, it also disappointed me because I truly believed this person to be somewhat educated.  So , I want to school him on a few things so that the next time he feels the urge to refer to me by a name that is totally irrelevant  to my ethnicity, he might think twice. Being of a multicultural mix, I have been called many names, some flattering and some not so flattering. And while having to deal with the ignorance of certain people on a daily basis, I have to keep in mind that nobody knows how to identify me. Unlike what you’re familiar with, the idea of interracial families and mixed-race people is still foreign to many of my peers, and lets be honest here, mixing of the races is still somewhat taboo in the United States regardless of progression.  Identifying mixed-race people for the...